Thought #1: I really hope to die before my wife.
Um-mit3ib kaifich 3ad we talked about this already and after that first scene of the old man looking at his wifes photo i just cant picture myslef in such a state. Fa ya3ni i'd rather take the cowards way out and let you wallow in the pain :P or we can have our deal remember if i go first and il try take you with me. But seriously ya3ni this is coming from a guy who LOVES alone time but just the thought of missing someone that bad and bein hopeless in the sense 5ala9 you cant really do anything about missing them and having to accept getting over it. =/ id rather go away first.
[[ BEWARE MAY CONTAIN MINOR SPOILERS! ACTUALLY ITS ONE LIL THING BES YA3NI IT IS A SPOILER :P ]]
Thought #2: Its cruel for Parents to die before their children.
I mean after watching the dad in the movie with his two kids and how their mom died and all it got me thinking, =S mabi amoot b4 my kids and let them suffer. Ya3ni 9ij im goin ahead of myself in that they will love me o miss me when i die :P bes seriously like just to imagine them alone ( well assuming i take um-mit3ib with me when i go ya3ni :P ) mit3ib maskeen ishthanba i9eer yateem =/ ? Ya3ni people say its hard for a parent to bury his son bes im a sucker for kids o 9ij ina fog i said id take the cowards way out bes if kids are involved ( ok so when i die my kids may be all grown up n all but theyr my kids :P ) still id rather take the pain rather be responsible for causing them pain. Solution? dont have kids = problem with that solution? im kids crazy i must have kids, my dream is to buy one of those leashes and atmasha ma3a mit3ib bilmall china chalb :P
So yea like i said these weren't exactly the main points the movie was trying to get to bes for me these two were what got me thinking o bes 7abait ashoof what are your thoughts on these topics :P
31 comments:
pretty, miss u shot gun :)
ur such a TYPICAL guy
not very ... coz u did like it..
BUT U DIDNT THINK IT WAS GR8!!
come on!!
wallah wallah ... i want to go see it again
u have no idea how refreshing it is t go to the theatre and actually watch something that brings u back to reality!
RARE!
since i know bout moms dying before their kids and a husband being left with out his wife and all the crap u dont want to have
i have ... and let me tell u this,
they pictured it and acted it, amazingly like it is in real life.
thats why it touched me very very deeply.
but im surprized u see a movie like this and theo nly two thoughts ur left with were DEATH, DEATH!
makes me wonder what kind of wife u have :p heheheh um mit3ib shimsawya bl rayaaal heheheheh!
Ana typical guy? who you trying to kid ? :P
oo Like i said dear, you sorta missed the point :P you shoulda posted what u wrote to me on msn. I really wasnt talking about the movie and as good as the movie was they really didnt touch these points much cuz well these points deserve all movie.
these arent the only two thoughts i got from the movie bes two thinks i think about alot which small scenes in the movie reminded me off. I guess the whole thing is me bitchin about how life is cruel and no matter what u do ur bound to hurt some1 u love.
the last line! wow.
yes ...
u got it.
when people die, life might stop for awhile, but then it'll force to to carry on, only cowards will end their lives.
ana abi amoot gabil kilmaan ;p ma abi az3aal 3ala walaaaa a7ad ;p aw abi inkoon kil my family 6al3een ma3a ba3a'6.. KILINA.. oo e9er car accident oo inmot kilna mara wa7da ;p wayed ra7aa.. la i7na nez3aal wala a7ad yez3aal 3alaina.. shrayik? ;p so its the perfect solution.. have all the kids u want.. ba3dain rekbaw il sayra.. o motaw kilkum mara wa7da ;p
min gaaaal ini 3abqariya! i swear.. im a genius!
no3ik: glad u agree =)
kitty: i never said id end my life if my wife dies, i just said i hope to go b4 her :P
on a more serious note, im not worried about wether theyr able to carry on, what i worry bout is the idea of them having to go through all that pain n the first place.
H: lolll 5ala9 yabeela ngooluhum bawadeehum picnic ba3dain adish ibshaba aw shay. Yala 5ala9 ana 7ajz ishaba ily yam baitna you pick another spot 3ashan mayshikoon :P
kids get over their parents dieing, but parents NEVER get over their kids, they always live with a broken heart
so no do0da, not a smart idea on ur behalf
LOL! :p mint mayet gable i told u !! :P ana aseer maynona w ashya'a sorry ;p w dandoon itg0oly intay thiba7tya okhoy? laa laaa mako ;p
ana amot gablek or inmot siwa;p
w shda3wa... mit3ib laih sar rayal w baghal 3adee inmooot;p bs itha ohwa ba3da digdig w birghee manmoot 3ana:P
I wanna die first too ;/
Even before all u bloggers...abaay ma atkhayal wa7id fekom mayit...
Ambaay yatny ilbachya...3aini dami3at!!
Aaaaaaaaaaah laaaaa tmoootooooon!!!!!
Waaaaaay ya 7ilwa mit3ib aby ashooofa hehehehehhehe aked 6ali3 dama khafef 3ela oma!!!
its intereting how u viewed it in your first point (i9ara7a alla 3een zoojtik 3ala ifragik :P) but I have to totallly agree with you on point #2, I exactly thought of it that way, but thats how life goes, and such situations make you just sit and wonder how you're much better than other people:)
loved that movie too :)
great post hun'!
hello!
well, im not reading this post bcoz im going to watch d movie moro inshallah.. so i'd have to kill u if i had read the post and it killed d movie for me :D
hmmm.. so that's no3ik's "beautiful movie"! really gota see it :)
Ok I stopped reading after you said spoilers ahead..
I need to watch the movie..
now I really wanna see it :P
I'll be Back
(Governor of California style :P)
I liked ur post
cuz i loved the movie.. its one of my favorites + i saw it with No3ik so akeed i liked it more "men sejji !"
about the death issue.. i have no comments.
i got sick of losing beloved ones.. i had enough
zalabya bedat bel nekad hehe ;|
w ana wain riiiiii7t ?
ana barabbi weldkum il hailigy awal ma taf6esoon ;p
la et7atoona
Well i'll take my wife with me if i'm dying...and as a parent yes i would never imagine my children dying before me..
um-mit3ib, itha tabeen itmooteen gabil raylich gooleely i'm sure it can be arranged;p
um-mid3aab, al7een dori agool "o ana wain ri7t!" mit3ib ana bakhtha o barabbee o banasaee omma ba3ad:p
ana abi amoot gabil my husband:p
dandoon: shtabeen it can be arranged SHTABEEN!! and mara7 akhaly baby mit3ib 3indiich madre shbitwizeeen eb ethnaa.. bakhalee 3ind um-mid3ab:p
eshda3wa: I knw il never get over it, and that they with time they will bes i stick with my idea based on one thing mabihum yit3athboon cuz i died il feel guilty having put them thru all that pain even though i knw they will get over it bes the fact they had to feel that pain in the first place is what gets me.
um-mit3ib: 5ala9 u grew on her so i can go first mwhahaha :P
DR: lol ee inshala yi6la3 3ala oma 3ashan insawa shay '3ala6 q6ait-ha ibras uma :P
G: Thaanks =)
reem: LOL the spoiler is very small bes yala watch it o comment already :r
diigmaa: loll yala watch it o get back to me
Zalabya: LOL ba3ad more than her? Thats possible ? :P oo sorry to ruin ur mood =/
um-mid3aab: mo ibta9rifeen 3alaina where did you think binwadeeh :P
Maze: At first i was with you on the children thing bes now hawant let em go first.
dandoon: i call shotgun to go first baina :P
um-mit3ib: loll theyll share visiting rights :P
ambeh!! wait a sec.. deep breath.. okie dookie..
i watched it this afternoon, i cried and laughed and cried ahhh such a beautiful movie!
hmm i have a rule, it might seems cruel or selfish bs really i dont want to have kids.. i cant i really cant, i'd freak out if they walk away an inch from me.. so no kids..
loss sucks.. every breath, every smile, every tear, every laugh, every thought.. daddy is part of'em all..
i want to go, die.. before my beloved, my dear future husband :) the thought kills me :(
there is this scene, when the screen writer enters the theater full of ppl cheering for him.. i cried.. it touched me..
when one loses a parent.. one feels like a lonely baby, a small frightened kid, no matter how old they r.. eeeh :)
sorry for the real long comment.. u just hit a nerve sweets :)
awal shay you dont have to apologize for long replies cuz i love long replies :P
oo thany shay you cant not have kids =/ lol i knw if ur too overprotective theyll hate you :P bes you have time to work on that :P
The writer, arthur i think his name was, was my fav character in the movie. I enjoyed every scene of his =)
Thats why i said il go b4 em, i dun wana put them in such a situation madri its just me. 3ad madri if u seen the movie untamed heart bes fee part reminded me of my post bes mabi agoola cuz its a spoiler so tell me if u watched it ba3dain il tell u bout that part :P
Enta la etga3ed etfawel 3ala nafsek o 3alaina! La et3adeek znob eb 7alat el depression ely ehya feha ;)
O btw The Holiday 7ada 3jeeeeb o touchy film ya 3deem el thooq :P (Cheny ga3ed a6eb fek wayed in ur blog?! :P)
funny where did this post go to!
okaay etha u both died and dandon and um-mid3ib died too.. ana ba5th mit3ib okay.. LOLLLLLLL :P
reminded me of an episode of FRIENDS.. :P
zizo: LOLL ithahir to much time spent with zanoob :P
oo ana ma gilt mo 7ilw glt 5osh filim bes not as good as zanoob says it is :P
missy: LOLL 9irna inthakr lawadim of friends :P which friends character would i be ? :P
ooo inshala if they all pass away u got dibs to take mit3ib maskeen 9ar 7alaw mo walad :P
ummm ur a mixture of joey and ross! :P
3ad i took the which friends char are you o kila yi6la3li joey bes im not that stupid :P fa glad u mixed me in with ross :P
Enshala =) but then if u pass ull upset ur children and their children and their children =) :P but i dunno by then ull be so old theyll probably be glad to get rid of you :P
Nonowa: lol whyd you delete them ? =/
ne ways lol i noticed something was wrong i just picked one of them and replied :P to bad i guessed wrong :p
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